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Theory of Change, AKA How Therapy Works

10/12/2022

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Clients are often curious about what therapy may do for them. It's more than fair to want to know what you are investing your time and money in!

I work with an existential-humanistic, psychodynamic, attachment-based, social justice-informed, trauma-informed lens and integrate modalities like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, and Parts Work. Read below for a brief description of how those theories of psychotherapy may create change in your life.
"What will psychotherapy do for me?" 

"What are we doing here?" 

"Why does it matter how my parents treated me?" 
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"Why should I share my embarrassing thoughts and feelings?"

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Psychodynamic Therapy - Psychodynamic theory explores events in our past that influence our present and shape our personality. Certain experiences have unconscious impacts. Change occurs through insight and understanding of early, unresolved issues. 

Object Relations Psychodynamic / 
Attachment-Based Therapy - 
Early relationships are foundational to who we are. Change occurs through exploration of past and current relational attachments and trauma as well as through reparative experiences with the therapist and transformation of current relationship dynamics. 

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Client-Centered Humanistic Therapy - 
Humanistic therapy centers around the idea that all humans have an internal drive toward wholeness. Change occurs by providing clients space to better understand and trust themselves and grow through the therapeutic relationship with the presence of three essential components: genuineness, unconditional positive regard, and empathy,

Existential Therapy - Existential psychotherapy focuses on the human condition--free will, self-determination, and the search for meaning. Change occurs through finding meaning in the face of anxiety,  acting authentically, and taking responsibly. The core question addressed in existential therapy is "How do I exist?" in the face of uncertainty, conflict, or death. ​

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Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) - DBT focuses on skill building to work with intense emotions and interpersonal conflicts that may be a result of attachment trauma. Change occurs through mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotional regulation, and improving interpersonal problem solving skills. 

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) - CBT leads with considering how thoughts impact our feelings and behaviors. Change occurs by noticing and changing unhelpful thought patterns and thereby being better able to cope with stressors in a more positive manner.

Parts Work Therapy - Parts work is a kind of therapy that addresses
differences and conflicts in “agendas” between parts that may be responsible for blocking emotional healing. Change occurs through accepting all parts of yourself, inviting compassion, befriending your parts, and resolving tensions.


To learn more about how it all comes together, read more about how I work and what happens in therapy here.
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Tools for Sleep

10/11/2022

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Sleep Tips:
  • Consistency. Make sleep a practice. Make relaxation a ritual. Try the resources below on a regular basis. Commit to a regular sleep ritual and stick to it for a month. 
  • Make your bedroom a relaxing, nurturing, dark environment. 
  • Avoid large meals shortly before sleep. 
  • Monitor caffeine use. 
  • Limit screen time before bed. Especially limit things like Twitter and TikTok that are fast moving, informational, and intentionally stimulating.
  • If you're having a hard time "turning off your brain," journal or make lists. 
  • Drop into your body with gentle movement or meditation before sleep. 
  • Don't freak out. The worse thing you can do is judge yourself or spiral about your night affecting the next day. In fact, consider how can you lean into your current experience. 
Resources:
Gentle Movement

30-Minute Qigong for Sleep
30-Minute Yin Yoga
25-Minute Restorative Yoga

Yoga Nidra
30-Minute Yoga Nidra
​90-Minute Yoga Nidra

Body Scan Meditation 
30-Minute Body Scan

Sleep Stories
The Calm App's Sleep Stories

Not Resisting Our Experience
Saying Yes To Reality Meditation 
Meditation For Relaxing Into Sleep 

Supplements*
*Check in with your MD before introducing supplements
Magnesium 
Melatonin 
CBD
Ashwagandha 
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