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“Bibliotherapy is a term that describes the very real process of being positively and therapeutically influenced by what you read.” —Pete Walker

Stephanie Bain Stephanie Bain

What is Psychodynamic Therapy, Really?

Let’s talk about a therapy style that’s old-school and still totally relevant: psychodynamic therapy. Sounds fancy and intimidating, right? Like something Freud would mumble about while stroking his beard. But it’s actually a really rich, nuanced, deeply human way of understanding why we do what we do—and how we can change.

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Stephanie Bain Stephanie Bain

Welcome to Purgatory: How Defense Mechanisms Trap Us (And How Therapy Helps Us Get Free

If you've ever been stuck in the same emotional pattern for what feels like... forever, this one’s for you.

You keep dating the same type of person, having the same fight in every relationship, or spiraling in anxiety and shame even though your rational brain knows better. You’ve read the books. You’ve journaled. You’re trying. But something’s not shifting. Welcome to purgatory.

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Stephanie Bain Stephanie Bain

Complex Trauma in Ginny and Georgia Part I

If you've watched Ginny & Georgia on Netflix, you know it's a lot. Teen angst, dark humor, twisty secrets, trauma, family dynamics—it’s not just a binge-watch, it’s a whole emotional journey.

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