Dialectical
Behavioral
​Therapy

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Collage of Marsha Linehan, founder of DBT. I didn't make this; this person did.

Looking for a DBT therapist in Oakland, CA? I integrate Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) into a psychodynamic, relational framework when appropriate and useful. More about how I work here.

What does this may look like:

• Building insight and awareness into your emotions, behaviors, relationships.
• Bringing in DBT skills like mindfulness, emotional regulation, interpersonal effectiveness, and distress tolerance into sessions as you learn them and as they are relevant for what is going on in your life.

We might be a good fit in working together this way if:

• You are interested in an adapted DBT approach.
• You are working on:
  • emotional regulation
  • relationship problems
  • identify as a highly sensitive person
  • identify with, or are diagnosed with, borderline personality disorder
• You have taken, are taking, or want to take a DBT course (I can help you find courses).
• You have general stability in your life and have a fair amount of insight.
• And, you also want to work in an a way that integrates relational and psychodynamic work.

We wont be a good fit if: 

• You want a therapist who practices full DBT fidelity (a robust one-year program with courses, individual therapy, group work, and phone coaching). 
• You need a robust level of care beyond what a private practice therapist can offer you during 50-minute therapy sessions weekly or twice weekly.
• If you are looking for an organization that offers skills classes, therapy, group work, and phone coaching (I can provide you with referrals for centers that do offer this).

Why I work this way:

• I believe in the healing power of insight work in a relational context. I think it useful to our past relationships and identify how the past is impacting the here and now.
• At the same time, I think DBT skills can quickly improve functioning and decreasing suffering while doing deeper, healing work.
• DBT skills include learning how to experience stress and discomfort without acting in ways that may be harmful (substance use, destructive relationship patterns, self-harm, etc), increasing awareness of your feelings and the feelings of others, learning how to process your feelings, working on making practical changes in your life, and learning how to communicate. These types of skills are helpful for everyone -- and can be life saving for individuals who find themselves in cycles of self-harm, abusive relationships, etc. 

​Stephanie Bain (she/her/hers)
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT #137288
 stephaniebaintherapy@gmail.com | 1-510-545-9329
445 Bellevue Ave, #6B, Oakland, 94610