Individuals who've experienced complex trauma and/or emotionally dysregulated caretakers may experience heightened anger or have a hard time experiencing and interacting with anger at all.
As a trauma therapist in Oakland, CA, I often work with clients to:
There are two common ways trauma can impact experiences of anger:
1. 𝕙𝕪𝕡𝕖𝕣𝕧𝕚𝕘𝕚𝕝𝕒𝕟𝕥 𝕒𝕟𝕘𝕖𝕣
Individuals react to certain circumstances with disproportionate anger. Individuals become overwhelmed with feelings of anger.
2. 𝕕𝕚𝕤𝕠𝕨𝕟𝕖𝕕 𝕒𝕟𝕘𝕖𝕣
Anger is perceived as scary and not permissible. Anger comes out as passive aggressiveness or resentment. Or, anger provokes a shut-down response.
Anger is a sign of boundary crossing and of threat. When an individual has suffered trauma this emotional reaction is turned up--leading to disproportionate or overwhelming anger or leading to fear, anxiety, and emotional shutdown shut-down.
This may look and feel like an overreaction. A compassionate, trauma-informed reframe is...
there's no such thing as an overreaction, we just may not be reacting to what's in front of us.
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Trauma impacts how you experience anger
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Stephanie Bain, LMFT
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